tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3681510362855017653.post3396135851274017926..comments2023-06-19T05:58:14.725-04:00Comments on Barrenness in a Fertile Land: Quick UpdateCurly Suehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07232873717802171517noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3681510362855017653.post-80975715542757273772013-03-14T16:28:59.239-04:002013-03-14T16:28:59.239-04:00I think its because it reminds you that you have *...I think its because it reminds you that you have *very little* control over what happens. I am a control freak and it took me a long time to realize I was blaming myself for every BFN because it meant I wasn't trying hard enough to control the situation.<br /><br />Life is so much easier now that I can be like "BFN? Well eff you too, fate - this is NOT my fault!"Curly Suehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07232873717802171517noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3681510362855017653.post-11030395259792444292013-03-14T12:12:26.787-04:002013-03-14T12:12:26.787-04:00"And that's another reason why it is easi..."And that's another reason why it is easier to go through a medicated cycle assuming that absolutely nothing will come of it. Because 80% or more of the time, I will be correct."<br /><br />WURD. Whenever I find myself freaking out, I just remember that it's a one-in-five shot. For some reason, it helps me feel better...dspencehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03028178955338687090noreply@blogger.com